Forgiveness Sunday

On the last day of Maslenitsa comes the Forgiveness Sunday, when people prepare themselves for the Great Lent by cleaning their souls from any negative feelings and make sure that they are at peace with those around them.
On this day Christians gather in church for a special service, when they ask for forgiveness from each other. The priest is the first to ask for forgiveness. Then parishioners take their turns: they cross themselves, bow deeply, ask to forgive them voluntary or accidental injuries and forgive each other with the words, “The God will forgive you!”
Defender Day – February 23
Defender's DayDefender of Fatherland Day is a day off.
In the Soviet times, this holiday used to be called Red Army Day as the Red Army was officially created on February 23, 1918.
Nowadays it has lost its political meaning and is regarded as a ‘men’s’ holiday. On this day the entire male population form little boys to old men receive greetings and small presents from the female part of the population. Women have the opportunity to show their warmest feelings towards their defenders, regardless of whether their loved ones served in the army or not.
Among the military this day is seen as a professional holiday.
Epiphany – January 19
A period from Christmas (January 6) to Epiphany (January 19) is called Svyatki (Christmastide).
According to the ancient pagan traditions, Svyatki is a time for fortune telling and caroling. During this period the magical spirits come to Earth and tell the truth about the unknown.
The Russian Orthodox Church has always banned fortune telling, but people used to do it in secret. Nowadays nobody takes it seriously, but rather as another opportunity to have a party and make jokes.
Epiphany concludes the two weeks of Svyatki marking the baptism of Jesus. On this day there is a big service in the Church with a consecration of water. The blessed water (Holy water) has a magic power and people drink it and sprinkle the house with it.
And the next day after Epiphany (January 20) is the last day for the New Year tree to be taken down.
Russian Old New Year – January 13
As the Russian Orthodox Church follows the Julian calendar, many Russian Orthodox holidays fall 12 days later than Western Christian holidays.
Therefore Russians have the opportunity to celebrate the New Year twice. The main celebration is on December 31st. The second time is on January 13th. Gift giving is not obligatory for this day. People wear masks and funny costumes, wander around, sing carols, gather for a big meal. Children go in costumes from house to house for the second time in the new year.
A New Year tree is kept until January 14th and sometimes longer – until Epiphany (January 19th.)
Christmas – January 7

In the contrast to Catholics, Russians celebrate their Christmas on the 7th of January, according to the Orthodox Church calendar. After the October revolution in 1917 celebrating Christmas in Russia was forbidden as well as other religious holidays. It became an official holiday only 74 years later in 1991.

The celebration somewhat reminds Halloween. Children go from house to house wearing costumes, singing Christmas carols, and collecting gifts for their performances.

Christmas is a family holiday, so traditionally members of the family gather on Christmas Eve to share a special meal. Religious people fast for 39 days prior to this day and start their Christmas supper with a special meal, called Kutiya, which is a sweet soupy dish made from wheat, dried fruit, nuts, and honey. After the Kutiya the Holy Supper begins – a vegetarian meal that consists of 12 different dishes that represent 12 Apostles. After the supper, the family goes to church.

The Orthodox church has a big Christmas service on this day that lasts until 2 in the morning. The ceremony is shown on TV, and Russian leading politicians, including the president, attend the service.

New Year – December 31

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How Russians are celebrating New Year

January 1 – New Year – is the first in the calendar and the most favorite holiday in Russia. Everybody celebrates it. It is bigger than Christmas. This is the time to make wishes and give presents to friends and relatives.

Children find their presents under the Christmas tree, which Grandfather Frost (Russian Santa Clause) put on New Year’s Eve. During a week before December 31st kids at kindergartens and Elementary schools have New Year’s parties, where they meet Grandfather Frost and his granddaughter Snow maiden.

Adults gather in big groups and celebrate New Year with delicious meals, fireworks, and a lot of noise. There is another tradition – shortly before 12 PM, everybody stands with a glass of campaign and listens to the New Year’s Speech by the President of Russia. When the Big Kremlin Chimes struck midnight, everybody is supposed to make a wish. Then people clink their glasses, say ‘Happy New Year!’, kiss each other and the party continues till 4, 5, 6… in the morning.

Partying

Russians adore partying. If a party takes place in a restaurant, keep in mind that it’s different from an American one. It’s not just a place to eat, but a place to feast. It’s always more food and drinks that anyone can consume. And, of course, there will be a lot of jokes, dancing and fooling around. Most likely you will be seated at a big table where everybody can see each other and feel that they are part of the group.

You’ll definitely want to dress up for a party with Russians. Men wear suits and ties. And women…. generally Russian women care greatly about their appearance. They are stylish and never leave a house wearing rumpled or stained clothes. (The neighbors are watching!) For a party, they may dress quite provocatively to a foreign eye, but it does not mean anything bad. High heels, makeup, nice looking hair, jewelry – everything should match.

We should mention the drinking part. Yes, Russians drink vodka at their parties, and they prefer not to mix drinks. Women mostly drink wine or champagne. Usually, the bottles are delivered to your table, and there is one man in charge who makes sure that there are no empty glasses on the table. Each drink should be toasted, and everybody is expected to say a toast.